Sorry seems to be the hardest word

LilaM says on Jun 30, 2008, 19:19:

ejejeje thanks anyway ;P but is not for me..

"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don´t try" B. Sills

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dwmte7 says on Jul 2, 2008, 05:09:

remember the movie, "love story"? ".........love means never having to say you're sorry."

dwmte

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dwmte7 says on Jul 2, 2008, 05:09:

remember the movie, "love story"? ".........love means never having to say you're sorry."

dwmte

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LilaM says on Jul 2, 2008, 07:13:

mmmmmm yes if there is love no sorry needed the problem is when the love is not alive.... sometimes sh#%&t happens

"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don´t try" B. Sills

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dwmte7 says on Jul 2, 2008, 17:59:

did you misspell (*&()*&^&%$??

dwmte

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CatGirl says on Jul 2, 2008, 20:33:

Lila..oooh soo sweet.

Good point "the problem is when the love is not alive" - gotta keep it alive!

Douglas I am suprised at you! You bad boy. Love is never having to say your sorry? But that is taking the other person for "granted" - Love is avoiding at all cost to take the other person for granted...this is one main way to keep Love Alive ;).....it dies and becomes booooring and stale when you take the other person for granted - yawn. (No thanks, Next!)

Psst - so if "mom" pokes you in the eye with a red hot poker or is inconsiderate and ruins a whole day for you...no need for her to apologize? You surely jest Amor!

Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent

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christobeldawg says on Jul 2, 2008, 20:38:

never understood that "love means never have to say you're sorry" line from the movie Love Story. That was a pretty stirring movie, with the great music, and with the death of a true love, through death, but I never understood that line.

admittedly, arriving can feel great too

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CatGirl says on Jul 2, 2008, 20:53:

Hola Dawg...I cannot recall the movie. Maybe I should see it.

After reading what you put (but taking into account I have not seen it) many times people die before you are able to say sorry or say things you thought you should or could have said and they end up living the rest of their life never forgiving themselves. Maybe this is a statement towards forgiving yourself? I dunno...I'll stop and see the movie I guess jeje

Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent

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christobeldawg says on Jul 2, 2008, 21:24:

check it out, if you can find it, and let me know wtf that line means. and enjoy the movie. I think it may have been the ultimate invention of chick flick. jaja

admittedly, arriving can feel great too

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CatGirl says on Jul 3, 2008, 21:40:

OK -

Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent

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dwmte7 says on Jul 5, 2008, 08:44:

kitty kat....noone, i mean noone can change or act for another. we're not responsible for each other's actions. if my oh so lovely wife kicks me in the nuts or stabs me in the eye with a red hot poker, this is a problem she needs address and "sorry" basically changes squat. had she done neither of these, she certainly wouldn't need or be prompted/obliged to say she was sorry. love/loving, is preemptive. can you dig it? want some?

dwmte

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MaFe says on Jul 5, 2008, 12:50:

dwmte7 says on Jul 5 (today): flag

kitty kat....noone, i mean noone can change or act for another. we're not responsible for each other's actions. if my oh so lovely wife kicks me in the nuts or stabs me in the eye with a red hot poker, this is a problem she needs address and "sorry" basically changes squat. had she done neither of these, she certainly wouldn't need or be prompted/obliged to say she was sorry. love/loving, is preemptive. can you dig it? want some?

DWM you are 100% right! People always think they can change one another...huge mistake..you will never change anyone..only you can change yourself...and old habits are hard to break!

"All human actions have one or more of these seven causes: chance, nature, compulsions, habit, reason, passion, desire. "-Aristotle

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CatGirl says on Jul 5, 2008, 17:40:

Douglas "kitty kat....noone, i mean noone can change or act for another. we're not responsible for each other's actions"

If you put it that way....I agree. Guess you were looking MUCH deeper into this than I was and taking this to an entirely different level, my dear, jeje...(the red hot poker comment wa an exaggerated joke, I figured you would take it that way;))

In regards to human error that creates unintended grief on another? and the person says oops! I did not realize that would effect you that way let me make some adjustments...etc...this is possible if the person is willing and there is Love or concern!

But for Old Habits that you don't want to change or adjust for another....only thing you can say is, sorry - that's me take it or leave it....hmm. I am not sure where you are going with this at all.
I have expressed my needs in a relationship and the person has said (sincerely) OOps! had no idea that was having that effect on you or Us....sorry! and made some adjustments. But when it comes to strong personality charcteristics like being self centered or callous? Well, why waste time expressing your needs, you wont get an Im sorry anyways.

Doulgas my dear - wot happened? How did we go from Sorry is the hardest word as an OP to this? I felt like you interpreted my comments as if I believe I can change someone? maybe I need to re - read the thread or something. BTW some people take most their lives to figure that one out - I learned that lesson at age 17. You OK?

Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent

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dwmte7 says on Jul 5, 2008, 18:48:

yo sweet kitty.....i'm always ok. none of this touches me. NEVER FORGET, i'm on your side.

sometimes, extrapolation leads to confusion and more often than not, an exageration of actual content. try not to strain that lovely heart and brain on nothingness.

dwmte

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CatGirl says on Jul 5, 2008, 19:07:

jejeje....OK - I will also try to add more smileys and jajaja's....So you know, when I wrote that comment it was meant to be in a "teasing way". Sometimes writing/typing can severely distort the intent one is trying to bring across ;)

Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent

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goin_south says on Jul 6, 2008, 01:11:

Hey Lila, maybe you should've posted this one:

Where do we go from here?

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CatGirl says on Jul 6, 2008, 15:44:

GS what the ?

OP - Lila states " This song goes for somebody that is having a hard time..."

Now that you put this up....rreeeeeaalllyy different take Mr GS, this is not even close by my book.

Kitty is lost now on the meaning of this already anonymous type post --- and I give up.... I really dont care for Simon all too much but I think I'll take his advice

Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent

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houstongal says on Jul 6, 2008, 18:09:

jajaja.....GS. Why am I not suprised that you picked that? Now the question is ...... HOW?

"It is now official: there's no place on earth where you will not find a Peruvian band." David Sedaris

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LilaM says on Jul 6, 2008, 20:12:

Jjjajajaja GS now we have a 50 To do list jajajaja, like we say here "Ahi estas pintado" ejejje

"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don´t try" B. Sills

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goin_south says on Jul 7, 2008, 11:59:

"Ahi estas pintado" ???

Where do we go from here?

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LilaM says on Jul 8, 2008, 09:56:

Well Ahi estas pintado is like..... "Is exactly who you are" or "It is very you!!!" but in a good way jejejejejej

"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don´t try" B. Sills

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