autohog

goin_south says on May 14, 2009, 17:32:

""She has had my debit card the whole time and has handled all the money."""

dude.... you need help!

nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry.

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catamd says on May 14, 2009, 20:41:

Hi, if you didn't sign any papers on her debts during the marriage, those debts aren't yours. Take your debit card from her, and file for divorce ASAP! You will need a power of attorney for you and one for your wife with authenticated signatures at a notaria, a formal written divorce claim signed both by you and your wife, and a claim asking the "disolucion de sociedad conyugal". It's not a difficult process, just get an honest attorney who knows a notario and he or she will help you out. Good luck! Any notarias will tell you the papers you need.

Dra Cata

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sloopskipper says on May 15, 2009, 06:34:

autohog says on May 14, 2009, 11:30: flag

"Thanks I did and left message. I aquestion for you, I don't speak alot of spanish so getting around is not easy. If the s hits the fan do you know of any cheap but safe hotels in Bogota. My idea is to bus or fly there and lay low till my big check comes on the 1st
Thanks"

Sorry, but I have never been in Bogotá, only a short week in Cartagena.

Seems that some people think "everybody's outa step but me".

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sloopskipper says on May 16, 2009, 02:40:

autohog says on May 15, 2009, 19:02: flag

"that lawyer never answered the email so I guess he isn't interested in anyone not in his city. Thanks anyway."

That's sorta strange, he replied to my question about estate planning, and I'm in Panamá. Perhaps he's outa town?

Seems that some people think "everybody's outa step but me".

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catamd says on May 17, 2009, 21:35:

I'll try to find out about a lawyer in Cucuta and keep you posted on the matter. Good luck!

Dra Cata

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